relationship philosophizing..

went to see bridget jones last nite.. cinema was so packed, guess it was esp cos of orange wednesday, but it made a good atmosphere ^_^ i enjoyed it despite wot ppl hav said!


i kno ure not supposed to analyse this film too deeply, BUT.. (i guess im in a relationship-hypothesising mood) i think im a bit like bridget too (arent we all?! prob more than we care to admit.. well that's for me neway! *_*) i always find fault in guys too. the tiniest things that arent perfect abt them just annoy me so much! it happens all the time.. of course i kno perfect ppl dont exist (and im not even near!) but i jus cant help it! im a mental hypocritical perfectionist i think.. hehee.. poor guys that have the misfortune of meeting me!! ^^;;


and again i kno ure not supposed to philosophise too much abt this film, BUT.. am i being cynical or can 2 ppl so different really sustain a functional relationship?? when 2 ppl have such different personalities, approach everyday life with different mindsets, are in social circles that are so out of synch and dont understant each other, have careers and aims that diverge, basically lead totally mis-matched lives.. how can they possibly go thru the ups and downs of life together as "one"?? dont tell me, "love conquers all" and all that.. yeah maybe i would believe it if life was one smooth ride and relationships were a blissful doddle!! im yet to be convinced.. been there tried that and it DOESNT work! but im not bitter and cynical or anything!! *lol* somehow i find myself in this kinda dilemma again (deja vu, why??????) the only relationships that i care about and seem to go anywhere in my life are the ones that will never go anywhere!! sigh.. im jus screwed up...